fix direct connector only select one listener (#875)

Cargo.lock

@@ -820,15 +820,6 @@ dependencies = [
  "syn 2.0.87",
 ]
 
-[[package]]
-name = "bounded_join_set"
-version = "0.3.0"
-source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
-checksum = "ae18fd8f4a623bcf416b5bc8f1e0905534d9911597ed17cc57ab9b6eed65454d"
-dependencies = [
- "tokio",
-]
-
 [[package]]
 name = "brotli"
 version = "7.0.0"
@@ -1941,7 +1932,6 @@ dependencies = [
  "base64 0.22.1",
  "bitflags 2.8.0",
  "boringtun-easytier",
- "bounded_join_set",
  "bytecodec",
  "byteorder",
  "bytes",