完善婚姻系统：①离婚弹窗展示魅力惩罚警告 ②婚礼档位强制必选（移除无选项默认第一档）③婚礼消息含领取红包按钮 ④AppendSystemMessage全局函数（支持HTML）

app/Events/MarriageDivorceRequested.php

@@ -52,13 +52,20 @@ class MarriageDivorceRequested implements ShouldBroadcastNow
     {
         $this->marriage->load(['user:id,username', 'partner:id,username']);
 
+        $divorcerUsername = $this->marriage->user_id === $this->marriage->divorcer_id
+            ? $this->marriage->user?->username
+            : $this->marriage->partner?->username;
+
+        // 读取协议离婚魅力惩罚供前端展示
+        $penalty = (int) \App\Models\MarriageConfig::where('key', 'divorce_mutual_charm')->value('value');
+
         return [
             'marriage_id' => $this->marriage->id,
-            'divorcer_username' => $this->marriage->user_id === $this->marriage->divorcer_id
-                ? $this->marriage->user?->username
-                : $this->marriage->partner?->username,
+            'divorcer_username' => $divorcerUsername,
+            'initiator_name' => $divorcerUsername,  // 前端兼容字段
             'timeout_hours' => 72,
             'requested_at' => $this->marriage->divorce_requested_at,
+            'mutual_charm_penalty' => $penalty,           // 协议离婚双方各扣魅力
         ];
     }