diff --git a/resources/views/chat/partials/user-actions.blade.php b/resources/views/chat/partials/user-actions.blade.php
index 125f5a7..2ac4a17 100644
--- a/resources/views/chat/partials/user-actions.blade.php
+++ b/resources/views/chat/partials/user-actions.blade.php
@@ -723,6 +723,19 @@
                         💍 求婚
                     </button>
 
+                    {{-- 自己未设置性别时的提示（让用户去完善资料） --}}
+                    <div x-show="!marriageLoading
+                            && (!targetMarriage || targetMarriage.status === 'none')
+                            && userInfo.sex
+                            && !mySex
+                            && userInfo.sex !== mySex"
+                        style="flex:1; display:flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center;
+                               padding:7px 10px; border-radius:5px; font-size:11px;
+                               background:#f8fafc; border:1px dashed #cbd5e1; color:#94a3b8; font-weight:bold; cursor:default;"
+                        title="请到个人资料页设置您的性别后即可求婚">
+                        💍 请先设置性别
+                    </div>
+
                     {{-- 对方已婚时显示提示 --}}
                     <div x-show="!marriageLoading && targetMarriage && targetMarriage.status === 'married'"
                         style="flex:1; display:flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center;