变更：求婚及离婚弹窗在有效期内重新刷新必现，并移除全局提示框的点击背景蒙层关闭功能强制操作

app/Http/Controllers/ChatController.php

@@ -198,6 +198,43 @@ class ChatController extends Controller
         // 8. 好友上线通知：向此房间内在线的好友推送慧慧话
         $this->notifyFriendsOnline($id, $user->username);
 
+        // 9. 检查是否有未处理的求婚
+        $pendingProposal = \App\Models\Marriage::with(['user', 'ringItem'])
+            ->where('partner_id', $user->id)
+            ->where('status', 'pending')
+            ->first();
+
+        $pendingProposalData = null;
+        if ($pendingProposal) {
+            $pendingProposalData = [
+                'marriage_id' => $pendingProposal->id,
+                'proposer_name' => $pendingProposal->user?->username ?? '',
+                'ring_name' => $pendingProposal->ringItem?->name ?? '',
+                'ring_icon' => $pendingProposal->ringItem?->icon ?? '',
+                'expires_at' => $pendingProposal->expires_at?->diffForHumans() ?? '',
+            ];
+        }
+
+        // 10. 检查是否有未处理的协议离婚请求（对方发起的）
+        $pendingDivorce = \App\Models\Marriage::with(['user', 'partner'])
+            ->where('status', 'married')
+            ->where('divorce_type', 'mutual')
+            ->whereNotNull('divorcer_id')
+            ->where('divorcer_id', '!=', $user->id)
+            ->where(function($q) use ($user) {
+                $q->where('user_id', $user->id)->orWhere('partner_id', $user->id);
+            })
+            ->first();
+
+        $pendingDivorceData = null;
+        if ($pendingDivorce) {
+            $initiator = $pendingDivorce->user_id === $pendingDivorce->divorcer_id ? $pendingDivorce->user : $pendingDivorce->partner;
+            $pendingDivorceData = [
+                'marriage_id' => $pendingDivorce->id,
+                'initiator_name' => $initiator?->username ?? '',
+            ];
+        }
+
         // 渲染主聊天框架视图
         return view('chat.frame', [
             'room' => $room,
@@ -205,6 +242,8 @@ class ChatController extends Controller
             'weekEffect' => $this->shopService->getActiveWeekEffect($user),
             'newbieEffect' => $newbieEffect,
             'historyMessages' => $historyMessages,
+            'pendingProposal' => $pendingProposalData,
+            'pendingDivorce' => $pendingDivorceData,
         ]);
     }